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		<title>By: alex - unleash reality</title>
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		<dc:creator>alex - unleash reality</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Dec 2009 16:50:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>paul is a legend. true story. 

supremo to get some background and really really liked the heart in the article. warm tingly feelings. 

the message is something i&#039;ve thought about and spoken about at length but you put it really really well. 

&quot;Big dreams are wonderful – except that I was using mine to look down on my present reality, making me overlook how wonderful it was in its own right.&quot;

...loving it for what it is. because it is the way it is. not so it&#039;ll change. 

it&#039;s tricky sometimes to convey that you can still have plans and look to the future whilst being present and living life right now. 

magic

hope all&#039;s well mate
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>paul is a legend. true story. </p>
<p>supremo to get some background and really really liked the heart in the article. warm tingly feelings. </p>
<p>the message is something i&#8217;ve thought about and spoken about at length but you put it really really well. </p>
<p>&#8220;Big dreams are wonderful – except that I was using mine to look down on my present reality, making me overlook how wonderful it was in its own right.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8230;loving it for what it is. because it is the way it is. not so it&#8217;ll change. </p>
<p>it&#8217;s tricky sometimes to convey that you can still have plans and look to the future whilst being present and living life right now. </p>
<p>magic</p>
<p>hope all&#8217;s well mate<br />
alex &#8211; unleash reality</p>
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		<title>By: Paul Maurice Martin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Paul Maurice Martin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Nov 2009 17:28:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Eric, thanks for your comment. That whole process of hopefully finding your way into meaningful work seems to play out in different ways for people. In my case, I ended up working with children for 23 years, first as an ESL teacher then elementary school counselor.

It was something that I first fell into in my early twenties. For years I kept wishing I could quit my &quot;day job.&quot; Long story short is that as the years went by, I found my work with children becoming integrated with my writing and with my own growth as a person.

Of course it&#039;s different for different people - sometimes you need to change jobs to get on a track that feels right. But early on I never would have guessed how right working with children would come to feel for me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Eric, thanks for your comment. That whole process of hopefully finding your way into meaningful work seems to play out in different ways for people. In my case, I ended up working with children for 23 years, first as an ESL teacher then elementary school counselor.</p>
<p>It was something that I first fell into in my early twenties. For years I kept wishing I could quit my &#8220;day job.&#8221; Long story short is that as the years went by, I found my work with children becoming integrated with my writing and with my own growth as a person.</p>
<p>Of course it&#8217;s different for different people &#8211; sometimes you need to change jobs to get on a track that feels right. But early on I never would have guessed how right working with children would come to feel for me.</p>
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		<title>By: Eric &#124; Eden Journal</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eric &#124; Eden Journal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 20:58:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is a great story.  I try to make the effort to reconginze the good in my life, and often take time to count my blessings.  This is a great reminder to do just that.  It&#039;s easier for me to appreciate things associated with home and family.  I often have a more difficult time appreciating things at work.  Thanks for sharing your story.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a great story.  I try to make the effort to reconginze the good in my life, and often take time to count my blessings.  This is a great reminder to do just that.  It&#8217;s easier for me to appreciate things associated with home and family.  I often have a more difficult time appreciating things at work.  Thanks for sharing your story.<br />
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		<title>By: Paul Maurice Martin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Paul Maurice Martin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 03:10:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jan – That tendency to “savor the simple and sublime” is something that I connect with spiritual growth – and maybe with maturity in particular. There seems to be some degree of truth to that “older and wiser” saying.

Albert – I had that happen too, especially with one particular friend who’d taken the initiative at becoming a friend of mine and who I entirely took for granted in high school and college. By the time I caught on to what a positive impact he’d had on me and what a great friend he’d been, we were out of each other’s lives.

So the sooner the better as far as catching on to this stuff goes!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jan – That tendency to “savor the simple and sublime” is something that I connect with spiritual growth – and maybe with maturity in particular. There seems to be some degree of truth to that “older and wiser” saying.</p>
<p>Albert – I had that happen too, especially with one particular friend who’d taken the initiative at becoming a friend of mine and who I entirely took for granted in high school and college. By the time I caught on to what a positive impact he’d had on me and what a great friend he’d been, we were out of each other’s lives.</p>
<p>So the sooner the better as far as catching on to this stuff goes!</p>
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		<title>By: Albert &#124; UrbanMonk.Net</title>
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		<dc:creator>Albert &#124; UrbanMonk.Net</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 02:04:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jay - great choice of guest poster!

Paul - This really hits home for me. What I&#039;ve been under- or non-appreciating in my own life are my friends. They&#039;re always there for me in their own way, and put up with some of my childishness, and only recently am I starting to see that. 

Thanks for a great read, you two.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jay &#8211; great choice of guest poster!</p>
<p>Paul &#8211; This really hits home for me. What I&#8217;ve been under- or non-appreciating in my own life are my friends. They&#8217;re always there for me in their own way, and put up with some of my childishness, and only recently am I starting to see that. </p>
<p>Thanks for a great read, you two.</p>
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